How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 08:06
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Making more friends is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
If Republicans say that Biden goes to shower with his daughter, how do Democrats support it?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Hangs out with loser friends.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What factors contributed to The Beatles' bitterness?
Do not set goals—set systems.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What do you like about McDonald's?
Does not procrastinate.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Ask yourself:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why am I so tired of seeing homeless people all over the place?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
As a woman, what would be you response to a male friend’s offer of a full body massage?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can you share the entire summary of your spiritual life?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How did you know you weren't the narc?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do girls ever miss their first love?
What I need from you?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.